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Mothering the Bones
This past weekend, I took a 3-day workshop called ‘Mothering the Bones’, led by Angela Dechaine of Wellspring Craniosacral Therapy. This course intrigued me when I read about ‘tending the female pelvis’ – an area that I had not learned much about in my Somatic Experiencing training – and we would be taught how to touch and hold women in their pelvic area in a supportive and healing manner. In my previous bodywork trainings, I have never had the sense of safety and clarity
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Mar 42 min read


Faraona (and I) Go To School
Faraona and I are on perhaps the biggest journey of our relationship. After she came off 6 weeks of stall rest last fall when she...
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May 26, 20252 min read


Diva is Yawning!
Why is it a big deal that Diva is finally yawning? Because yawning is a sign of relaxation, and this is another step in Diva’s trauma...
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Oct 16, 20243 min read


Working through Near-Death Experiences . . . and not with Psychedelics!
“Coming back from the dead is not quite the same as coming back to life.” Sarah Winman Psychedelics are the latest rage for working with...
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May 30, 20247 min read


What is Congruence and What Does it Have to Do with Horses?
I have seen it over and over again – someone goes into the roundpen with a horse and the horse totally ignores them. The person tries...
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Mar 1, 20233 min read


Sole Abscess - A Metaphor for Life?
I was surprised by the number of views to my original Instagram Reel of soaking Holly’s sore foot. For some reason that resonated with...
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Feb 14, 20232 min read


The Transformation of Diva - Final (?) Update
After a year and a half of trauma-informed horsemanship with Diva, I finally feel that we are at a place where most of the stored trauma...
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Jan 27, 20232 min read


Why are Emotions Important?
We live in a culture that values rationality and intellect over emotionality. Many of us grew up in families where expressing certain...
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Jan 3, 20235 min read


The Transformation of Diva - Update 4 Recognizing the Freeze Response
One of the tricky bits of being with a client is recognizing when the client is calm, or if they are actually in the freeze response. ...
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Dec 12, 20223 min read


Dance Like No One is Watching
Dancing with a horse is the final activity of the Eponaquest Instructor apprenticeship. My dancing was a complete failure, as I...
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Nov 6, 20224 min read


The Transformation of Diva Update - The Beginnings of Connection
My first dressage coach used to say that, in order to train a horse, you needed to teach them the word first, then a sentence and finally...
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Sep 24, 20224 min read
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